This is going to sound bad but...?

Honey, you're a young girl you have all your life ahead of you, don't be in such a hurry, sit back and enjoy yourself there is plenty of time for romance in the future. Relationships take time to grow and flourish as they do. Slow down take your time, try not to depress yourself with the worries of things going on around you. It will all come in its own good time.