Can someone please help a brother out?.?

Ok you are unhappy with yourself. If this wasn't true you wouldn't be worried about what other people think. Family is the worst when you are down on yourself. You fix the problem with yourself,(whatever that is) and you will see a change in everyone's attitude around you. When you are not happy inside you start noticing things on the outside that didn't really bother before. Maybe you are a little lazy but hearing it from someone else really sucks. So you get to the point where your happy looking at yourself in the mirror everyday and you will see these crazy feelings and cares start to fade. I think your putting alot of pressure on yourself that isn't necessary. Your in school and things are not going your way on the home front. Take a deeeeeep breath and start one day at the time and find your inner peace. I know your rolling your eyes but its true. I been there........Im 33 years old and I have a 14 year old. Don't make the same mistakes I did. Worry about your own happiness and the rest falls into place. I promise you. Good luck and keep your head up.